DEAR ANNIE: My husband has made it clear that he wants out of the marriage and is asking me to move out of our home. We have already tried counseling, and I am emotionally exhausted. He is pushing for me to leave without discussing any kind of support for our teenage child, and I am feeling pressured and overwhelmed.
This situation is stirring up a lot of fear and uncertainty. I am tempted to just give in and leave to avoid more conflict, but something in me says I need to pause and think this through carefully. I vaguely remember hearing that moving out, especially if your name is on the house, can affect your rights during a divorce. Years ago, I heard from an attorney that if you own your home, it is usually best not to leave without legal advice, though I do not remember all the reasons why.
I want to do what is best for my child, protect what I have worked for and avoid making any rash decisions I might regret.
Is it true that moving out can hurt your legal or financial standing? And how do I begin to protect myself when everything feels like it is falling apart? — Stuck and Unsure What to Do
DEAR STUCK: You are wise to pause. Do not move out without first speaking to a family law attorney. Leaving the home can sometimes affect your custody or financial claims. Protect yourself legally before making any major decisions. Do not pack a single bag until you talk to a lawyer. Leaving your home could be seen as abandoning your property or weakening your case. Get legal advice. Emotion should not make this call; facts should.
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